The Top 10 Lessons Learned from Harper Lee's "To Kill A Mockingbird"

It has been a few weeks now since the death of Harper Lee, a literary icon who passed away Feb. 19 at the age of 89. I have finally finished processing the legacy she has left behind in the world of classic American literature.

Sure, at first, I only thought about how her novel, To Kill A Mockingbird, was just one of "those" books we were assigned to read in the ninth grade. I never fully realized the impact Lee had on classic literature until now.

Her novel raises awareness to racial inequality, gender roles, innocence and rape. The protagonist and main character of the novel is Atticus Finch, a character many readers would consider to be the symbol of society's moral values and a hero. I am now more appreciative of To Kill A Mockingbird and see how the novel leaves readers with inspiration, integrity, and moral values.

Here are my top 10 quotes - and lessons - I learned in Lee's literary work of art.

1) "You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view...Until you climb inside of his skin and walk around in it."

2) "But before I can live with other folks, I've got to live with myself. The one thing that doesn't abide by majority rule is a person's conscience."

3) "Real courage is when you know you're licked before you begin, but you begin anyway and see it through no matter what."

4) "It's not time to worry yet."

5) "Try fighting with your head for a change...it's a good one, even if it does resist learning."

6) "Atticus had said it was the polite thing to talk to people about what they were interested in, not about what you were interested in."

7) "I do my best to love everybody...It's never an insult to be called what somebody thinks is a bad name. It just shows you how poor that person is; it doesn't hurt you."

8) "Equal rights for all, special privileges for none."

9) "But you see, they could never, never understand that I live like I do because that's the way I want to live."

10) "Atticus says you can choose your friends but you can't choose your family, and they're still kin to you no matter whether you acknowledge them or not."

For more quotes, check out Goodreads! 

It's the Little Things

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A Letter To Your Loving Self

Dear Self,

Someone once told me life does not truly begin until you enter college. As an adult, you feel more independence over your academic courses and the balance between social life and school is all on you. Who would have ever known you'd grow up so fast? Certainly not me.

With the expectation to excel at life, you set the bar too high and expect to much from yourself. You study too much. You ponder too much. You criticize myself too much. 

Valentine's Day is celebrating love. And friendship. And relationships. So why not celebrate...you? And I don't mean celebrate you on just one day out of the year, but why not every day?

It's hard to make time for yourself in the sea of scheduled meetings, classes, and homework, but taking the time for self-care is one of the best ways to de-stress. Here are some techniques for self-love and for celebrating you:

• Yoga: Treat yourself to a yoga class or a morning filled with meditation, which can be a relaxing way to begin your busy day and ease your mind, body, and spirit. 
• Sleep: You deserve a mid-day nap to take your mind off of the craziness left in your day. Spend some time during the afternoon to refuel.
• Me Time: Pick a day to date yourself. Whether you treat yourself to lunch or a movie, take the time to get to know yourself. You'll be amazed at all the new things you learn about yourself!
• Let Go: Sure setting goals and expectations are the way to excel in academics and careers, but don't make these goals too unrealistic...that will only create more stress. Learn to let go of the past and focus on the present (this is one techniques that I have recently adopted); it takes the pressure off of you when you stop trying to control your future.
• Volunteer: When you need that time to reconnect with yourself, try volunteering in the local community. Volunteering is one way to reflect on your life and give back to others. Who knows? You might even make a new friend. 

Of course, there are always more self-kindness and self-love techniques. Someone also told me to go with the flow of life and learn to trust your gut feelings. Well? What are you waiting for? 

You owe it to yourself to go out and discover your passions, to explore everything and anything, and most importantly, to love yourself. The latter being the most difficult if you're one who tries to make everyone else happy. Always remember to never stop being the most unique individual you can be. 

Sincerely,

Me

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In Touch with Nature

It's been such a busy summer and a long semester, and my blog posts have not been up to par! But I'm back at it just in time for 2016!

To recap my last volunteer experience, I went to the Cayuga Nature Center through Service Saturday. This experience was far different than any other volunteering experience I have ever had! It was the first time I was working outdoors at a nature center to rake leaves and remove trees. The group and I moved piles of tree branches and cleaned the landscape around the center to make it a bit cleaner as winter approaches.

At Cayuga Nature Center, I was able to help with raking the fall leaves and cleaning up some of the outgrown trees and weeds surrounding the yard. Although the weather was chilly and summer was certainly over, I had come to realize how much of a difference raking leaves makes to an organization such as the nature center. And, of course, I got to see how fun raking leaves can be!

Raking leaves at Cayuga Nature Center

As I spoke with the facilities manager, he informed me that having a group of people - no matter how small - help with cleaning up the yard and preparing nature for the winter ahead was a really large help. For him, it is often difficult to maintain all of the yard work and the indoors facilities and maintenance around the center so having volunteers to complete tasks he had wanted to complete, but hasn't had time to, means a lot.

My volunteer group had much fun exploring the wilderness and maintaining the environment. 

Through my day at the nature center, I recognized the need for more volunteers at nature organizations. It is important to clean and maintain not only the yards, but also the hiking trails in order to create a more clean environment for the people who visit. In a scenic place such as Ithaca, many of the trails call for beautiful hikes. It would be a shame to let these trails go to waste just because there weren't enough volunteers to help with the maintenance of them. At my time with the nature center, I got in touch with nature and worked to improve the environment for environment-enthusiasts and hikers. My advice for those seeking a new experience volunteering would be to definitely try working at a nature center. It allows a new perspective on caring for the environment and why maintaining nature is such an important aspect to our lives. After all, we want the Earth to be around for future generations, right?

"We don't inherit the earth from our ancestors, we borrow it from our children" ~ David Brower

Do You Choose to Be Kind or to Do What Is Right?

We often must decide if we should choose to be kind or if we should choose to do what is right. Sometimes, community service feels like a chore to others because they believe it is the right thing to do. Sometimes, people volunteer because they want the admiration and respect of others. In all reality, it is not about getting attention or gaining the respect of others. Volunteering should allow yourself to feel good and can always be the journey to self-discovery. I know for me, volunteering has given me the opportunity to find a piece of myself. I always leave the volunteering site with the intent to return and to continue giving back. Serving my community has now become one of my passions. 

The next time you volunteer, I encourage you to think about why you volunteer. Do you volunteer out of kindness or because it is right? What have you learned through your community service?

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