The Secret Santa

I hope everyone had a nice Thanksgiving and is looking to kick-off the holiday season! With winter approaching and the holidays nearing, there is no doubt that people will shop and travel to various places around the country. However, there is a lot more to the holidays than just shopping and traveling. 

For me, the holiday season is my favorite time of year. Not only do I get to relax with my family and friends and enjoy the seasonal traditions, including tree lighting ceremonies and ice skating, but I also get to spend time giving back to those in need of holiday cheer. 

There are countless ways to volunteer and help others during the holiday season. Whether you want to spend one hour of your day or three days of the week helping others to have a merry holiday, here are three easy ways to lend a helping hand in your community.

1) Food banks - Volunteering at food banks or community kitchens is one of the most fun and rewarding experiences you can have during the holidays. Many soup kitchens have volunteers prepare and serve warm meals to those in the community who are in need. I have learned that volunteering at food banks and soup kitchens allows you to learn about the needs of a community and how the community is working to combat those needs.

2) Toy drives - If you enjoy shopping, buy toys that you are able to donate to a community toy drive. For instance, toy drives such as Toys for Tots, provide toys for less-fortunate children in the community. The program collects unused and unwrapped toys to bring the holiday spirit to children. I truly enjoy donating to toy drives because I believe that each child should be able to receive a gift during the holiday season. I hope that more people can donate to toy drives and help make the holidays enjoyable and memorable for every child in need. 

3) Clothes donations - Winter can also serve as a time when people clean out their closets in preparation for Spring. If you are thinking about cleaning out your closet and throwing away old clothes, why not take those clothes and donate them to a local charity or thrift shop? Often, local schools and community organizations will host clothing drives that allow people to donate gently used clothes ranging from shoes to coats to accessories. There are also thrift stores located within communities that re-sell donated and used clothes. Every article of clothing - whether you believe the item is useable or not - should be donated because the charities eventually sort the donations and still receive money for clothing they recycle. My incredible opportunity with The Rescue Mission last fall allowed me to learn about the donation process and how organizations handle donated items that are unable to be sold or used. 

Amidst shopping for loved ones and traveling to visit family, make a difference this holiday season and spread love, warmth, and the gift of giving to those in need. 

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The Rescue Mission

One of the most eye-opening, incredible experiences I have had during my freshman year at college took place in October 2013, where instead of heading home for Fall Break, I participated in an Alternative Fall Break mission trip through the Office of Student Engagement and Multicultural Affairs. Although I could have lounged around my house for four days doing nothing but watch TV, I decided to travel to Syracuse, New York.

With a small group, I got to volunteer at a local homeless shelter called The Rescue Mission. A program and shelter that works to combat hunger and homelessness, The Rescue Mission hopes to strengthen communities. By providing each individual with food, shelter, and clothing, The Rescue Mission is the impetus to getting people back on their feet.

Me and the volunteer crew

On the drive up to the shelter, we stopped at a local thrift shop, the Thrifty Shopper. Consumers (yes, people like you!) can donate gently used merchandise to the store, which will sell the goods to those in the community. As a volunteer at the Thrifty Shopper, we helped organize clothing and sort used merchandise. Volunteering at Thrifty Shopper, I learned that thrift stores are not all that bad. You know, there are numerous preconceived notions about thrift shops, such as they are stores for the poor and the quality is lacking. But that is not the case; for, customers who come to thrift stores are just like you. I can say that through my volunteer experiences at the Thrifty Shopper, I have met some of the friendliest customers. Everyone who came into the store was not afraid to say "hello" to us --- they were so approachable and conversational. 

Afterwards, we continued our drive to the shelter. Once there, I immediately saw the stereotypes of homeless shelters come to life. The people lacked smiles on their faces, the streets were bare as if they were dark alleyways, and the various areas of the shelter were gated and closed off. One of the first tasks we were assigned to do was sort bags and bags (and bags) of donated clothing, some of which would be used as Christmas gifts during the holidays. Then, we took the sorted clothing and carried them down to a nearby Thrifty Shopper. We worked as sales associates on the third day, helping to organize, sell, and interact with customers.

On the last day, we were offered the opportunity to serve breakfast to the members. Serving food turned out to be a lot of fun. The meals we served disregarded society's preconceived notions of homeless shelters; for, the food was enjoyable. We served foods such as bread, fresh fruit, coffee, and juice. After we finished serving, we got to enjoy the meals for ourselves (yep, the same exact meal we had just served!).

Spending four days at a homeless shelter gave me a new perspective on life. I realized that the members of the shelter were, in fact, hard-working citizens who took a wrong turn on their path to success. The people had incredible stories to tell. Rather than ignoring us and pushing us away during our meal, many allowed us to sit with them and converse with them. One guy told us to "stay in school" and "make our parents proud." That statement got to me. He shared with us the ways he is working to turn his life around, informing us that it is shelters like The Rescue Mission that give people hope. Before leaving, he shot us a smile and thanked us for our efforts. 

I felt touched. All of my stereotypes about homeless shelters, and its members, diminished. The fact that the shelter acts as a stepping stone for its members and the community is absolutely amazing. While serving, the people were incredibly grateful and I am glad that I got the opportunity to enjoy a meal with them. Hearing some of their stories allowed me to reflect on my own life. After living in a homeless shelter, I am extremely blessed with my life. Each day, I think about this mission trip and see the world in more perspectives than one. The clothes that I wear daily, the food that I am blessed to eat, the family and friends that I have beside me, and the daily activities I perform, all allow me to live a cherished life. 

The advice of that man will always stick with me; for, I will continue to work hard to make my parents proud, striving towards my own success, as well as that of those in the community. 

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